Dear Celibate Yogi,
I am a 29 year old man who also
began watching porn at 12. I love the fact that you address that willpower is not
going to get to the heart of quitting but rather an open conversation with porn and yourself to realize that
porn is lying and is not there for you. It always has been lying and it never has been there for you.
Love is built on open, warm, honest and vulnerable relationships. Porn is a dream in which
someone is telling you to cross a chasm to the candy land, saying the bridge is there when in reality it’s
not. There is no candy land, there’s just a longer climb out of the pit.