If you haven’t been keeping up, this is the 3rd in a series of posts about the lies and delusions that keep you an addict.
You already know this, but it bears repeating. Even after all this knowledge gathering (including reading my book or the easypeasy book), you still hold on to the idea that PMO is pleasurable.
Let’s dispel that delusion once and for all.
PMO is not pleasurable. In fact, you watching PMO is pure torture so that you can feel the relief of stopping the torture.
PMO is not about sex either. If it was, then I challenge you to download 1 video for the next 6 months and ONLY watch that video to PMO. No social media surfing, no tabs, no tube sites. One “perfect” video.
I’ve asked dozens of people about this. 100% of them have told me that they can’t do that! What they’re really into is the urge-surfing part.
The part where you have 5, 10, 20, 100 tabs open and you go from tab to tab to find your “release”.
This is as smart as whipping yourself a 100 times so you can feel the pleasure of Aloe-Vera gel. Each open tab is a whip on your back. The “anticipation” is actually the beginning of the torture phase. It is akin to you getting excited for your execution and then being relieved you “only” got 100 whip lashes on your back.
This can be a tough delusion to get out of, but I’ve been doing this hundreds of times for the people I’ve helped.
I’m now going to do this in a new and more interesting way. It’s a 6 week pilot program to help you get out of the lies and get on with your life. Learn more here.